My main problem with PlentyofFish…

My problem with POF is NOT the time it takes to find a mate…my problem is the copious amounts of rudeness on this site…not being interested is NOT an excuse for not answering email, I don’t care how many messages you get a day, whether it be 1 or 101, still answer. The mods are ABSOLUTE pieces of garbage on there too,…instead of taking constructive criticism, & seeking ways to help correct things, they ban people from the forums for inordinate stretches of time (3yrs), & then go about their daily busy-body duties as if nothing happened…I call that INCREDIBLY bad customer service!



I try & tell the truth about a website & get attacked for it on Facebook…why are people so stupid? Plus, I had a friend suggest that I, “ask God for a wife”…I damn near said, “what the hell do you think I’ve BEEN doing for the past 22 years???” Instead, I just told him, “God’s too busy, therefore, I have to do it on my own”, & left it at that. God doesn’t care.

Dating sites

I have tried numerous dating sites & they all stink…I have tried PlentyofFish, Christiandate, Fusion 101, OkCupid, DateHookup, Zoosk, & countless others I cannot remember…they all suck! Right now, I’m still on PlentyofFish, DateHookup, & OkCupid…(& I should have my head examined for it)…theĀ ABSOLUTE WORST of these three is PlentyofFish. Women on PlentyofFish would not know a good man from a doorknob! DateHookup is about as bad, because God forbid if they don’t like your photo – they insult you on it. People actually made fun of my bodybuilding pictures & called me “Gay” (which I’m not). They did not even take into account how much WORK, PAIN, & SACRIFICE it takes to do that sort of thing. I mean, there will always be haters, I accept that…in fact, it’s GOOD that there are haters, because haters DRIVE people like bodybuilders to do what we do…the more they hate, the more WE train…they hate because they could NEVER do what we do. I feel like I’m “hoping against hope” that someone will find me attractive enough on one of my three remaining sites to give me a chance…I feel like a failure in love. Notice I did not say “game of love”, because love is not a game…so many people treat it as if it is,…& THAT’S the problem. People have pretty much turned into “heartless bastards”. Especially women! More later.