and she sounds real nice every time I talk to her by phone. I have basically taken myself off of every dating site except two, and that is fine with me. I am just doing what I want now, which sounds selfish, but really isn’t, because now, I do not much care what people what people say or think of me. Growing older has its advantages! I also racked-up another trophy in May of 2018, too! The 2018 Steve Smith Memorial Trophy.