I really didn’t want to write OR talk about dating today, but I’m about a month & a half out from “getting back into the game”, & I’m feeling pretty good about it!  I’ve got what I’m thinking is a positive profile (I TOTALLY re-did it like 27- times to make damn sure it was positive!), I’m going to have a friend take updated pictures of me, I’m also NOT going to “live” on my site…meaning, I’m just going to set it up nicely, leave it, let it work, & not do anything to it.  I’ve got other stuff to do than “sit & watch a boiling pot”.  That’s the way I did it last time & I got something, so that’s the way I’m going to do it this time, too!  I’m learning.  It’s taken awhile for my “Bell Curve” to go up, but I’m feeling that it finally has!  I just didn’t think it would take until I was in my friggin’ 40’s to do so!  Oh well…at least it has!

I know I’m NOT USING: Craigslist, OkCupid, Fusion101, DateHookUp, ChristianDate, Zoosk, Match, or anything on Singlesnet.


God found her!

On June 20th, 2015, I had a kind, cute, funny, caring, woman ask me out on a date,…& I said yes. I’m glad I did. God knows, I’ve made massive misjudgments of people in the past, but I don’t think I have here. We’ve been out on 5 or 6 dates already. I maintain that I did not find this girl…God did. Plus, He gave me patience by forcing me to give up looking (which I had, except for two websites,…& I did basically nothing on those sites except for post a positive profile & then, leave it alone). Like I said before, I take NO credit for this,…none at all! God let her… find me! I hope I never doubt God again (I know I will; I’m human, but I hope this lessens my doubts, at least)! Each time I go out with this girl, I find it easier and easier to talk with her, to kid around with her, and to just be myself with her. It’s remarkable, to say the least!

Also remarkable, is that I’m not losing my head over this. Yes, I’m in love,… but no, I’m not blind; I’m still using my God-Given common sense,…THAT, in itself, IS a miracle! We’re sort of still in the “getting to know you” stage, but things are going good.

She gets my humor…she’s also a smart-ass; like me, which is great, she’s smart (book and  common sense), she has a heart like you wouldn’t believe, she’s local, and she ACTUALLY LIKES math (we can’t all be perfect!). She has told me that the best thing she likes about me is my heart (which tore me up, because I was pretty damn close to not having a heart!). All in all, it’s going pretty good now.

Alright, this sucks!

I do NOT hate gays, BUT this country WILL pay for what it’s done today! I happen to believe in God, and He will NOT be mocked! I don’t exactly know what’s coming, but I have an idea, and I’m not liking what I’m seeing! God has told us that man shall NOT lie with man, & we have, as a country, defied God! Now, normally, I’m not all “Hellfire and Brimstone”, but this has got to stop! Just who do we think we are? I sincerely doubt obama believes in God! Personally, I think he’s the Son of Hell. Marriage is between a MAN and a WOMAN. God did NOT take a rib from Adam’s side and create Steve! And, I do not care if I am persecuted for believing that marriage is between a man and a woman….I will hold to my beliefs. Now, if they want to do civil unions…whatever, but I will NEVER condone same-sex marriage! Marriage is NOT a right, it is an honor…government should NOT have ANY say in the matter, at all! After all, marriage was NOT created by government…it WAS created by God!

I’ve been doing some thinking…

I’m still cleaning up around my place & I ran into a book called, “The Mystery Method”, which is supposed to be some sort of book about getting women to sleep with men. Really!?! Humanity is reduced to this!?! I mean, people are still being born,…so why the need for a stupid book? This is EXACTLY why women get pissed at men! I mean, how would you like it if someone wrote a book on how to manipulate YOU!?! Now, I’m writing this from a common sense viewpoint; I’m not trying to score “Brownie Points” with females. Truthfully, I couldn’t give a damn less on scoring “Brownie Points”. I know I suck with females, & always will,… but DAMN guys,…are we so damn hard up with women that we have to read a damn book on how to “sleep with women”? My GOD!!!

Look, to be sure, this IS partially females fault, in that they make guys “jump through hoops” just to date them, let alone sleep with them,…SO guys feel like they HAVE to publish and read shit like this out of need to feel like they’re able to keep up “with the Jones’s” in dating females.

Look, everyone’s different…that’s what these Dickheaded authors & readers don’t understand (and apparently, don’t want to understand). What will get one person into bed, might not work on someone else (male OR female).

Obversely, contrary to what a lot of females might think, all men are NOT pigs…in fact, most of us (men) are pretty decent people. We’re just tired of “jumping through hoops of fire” in order to be with a female. It’s stupid! It’s damn stupid!!!

Females have become so damn choosey with selecting males, that it’s become ALMOST impossible for a male who doesn’t measure up, to find anyone! Example: short men. Women, in general, like their guys to be 6ft (or more), so God frigging help the guy who’s less than 6ft tall!

And then there’s the Democrats…do you REALLY think that all this talk about the “War on Women” REALLY helps the average guy with dating!?! I’m saying this, and I’m only saying this once,…”THERE IS NO WAR ON WOMEN”, AND NEVER HAS BEEN!

A lot of (not all) females, like to judge males by height, instead of what’s in their heads & hearts, even after they’ve known and talked to the man for a while.  Damnedest thing I’ve ever seen! Hell, I’ve even had one woman tell me that she wouldn’t date me because I wasn’t blonde! I’m not lying!!!

Now, I’m not saying this shit to complain – people are crazy and getting worse by the month -, but I am saying that is at least a 50/50 proposition, if not more so the females fault that she is single, because the truth is, that it is the female who picks the guy most of the time, and NOT the other way around (let’s be honest here!)…think I’m wrong?….then let’s examine this:

The girl wants the guy, she does EVERYTHING in her power to get him, even if he’s not interested in her (now, the man CAN get out of it, but NOT without looking like an asshole).

If the guy wants the girl, but the girl isn’t interested (which is usually MY case), the girl tells the guy to “take a hike”, and that’s it….and if the guy has the temerity (or stupidity) to pursue (as USED to be my case…NOW, I just don’t give a damn), she immediately & conveniently finds “someone to date”, even if the new guy that she’s begun to date turns out to be a piece of shit, just as long as he’s at least 6ft tall. Therefore, the guy who really does care for her, loses out. Then, when she finds out later that the guy she chose to date, turns out to be an asshole…she actually has the audacity to ask, “Where are all the good men at?” My reaction is almost always, “Well, it’s your own damn fault….I would have “treated you like a queen”, but I wasn’t “tall enough” so, you deserve what you get!”

Look, I get the attraction thing, but my point is, give a guy a chance whether he’s 6ft tall or 3ft tall, they might just surprise you!